I feel your pain. I just lost my best friend, fishing buddy, ex husband to bile duct cancer just over a week ago. I took care of him for the past 4 months. His health went down so fast after 5 chemo treatments. Our son and i had to put him in hospice and 3 days later, he died. We are still in shock. Never in my life have i ever seen such an aggressive cancer. It's horrible. My heart goes out to you and your family.