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(5 replies, posted in Introductions!)

Dear Rin,

Just wanted to add my welcome to the others.  Glad you joined in the discussion but sorry you had reason to be here.

The news about your husband is fabulous.  You and he are true cc heroes!!

Here's to many clean scans in your future!!

Hugs-
-Randi-

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(6 replies, posted in General Discussion)

For me, I looked for trials to see if I was a candidate, however, since standard treatment was suggested to me (whipple, chemo) I never really considered a clinical trial. 

I might have considered one if it had applied to me, however, no one even suggested it to me. 

It strikes me that it is often the patients job to search out clinical trials and I imagine most people just don't have the strength, time, or emotional reserves to do it.

Just some thoughts.
-Randi-

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(11 replies, posted in Good News / What's Working)

Thanks everyone!

Susie:My next scan is in August, mostly because that is the time period that makes me comfortable.  The Onc said that I will probably only have a couple of more scans and then be released from his care.  scary...

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(18 replies, posted in General Discussion)

Pam,

I have been thinking of and praying for Lauren.  I just have this gut feeling that things will be ok.  I am so thankful for your update and that you had some good news to report.  I know things are still precarious and I will continue to think of Lauren and send positive thoughts and prayers.

Sending ((((hugs))))
-Randi-

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(20 replies, posted in Introductions!)

Youza Bruce!  You and your wife are very busy folks, I got a little exhausted just reading about all you do!!  This is great news as the job of life is what we really are all striving to have and you and your wife have certainly mastered it. 

Best wishes
-Randi-

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(6 replies, posted in General Discussion)

Dear Moontje,

So sorry to hear your news.  I can only imagine your sadness and fear, but I hope that the news that they can take it out is giving you some comfort.

Sounds like this was detected on a PET scan.  I was wondering if  they did  a biopsy of any sort to confirm it is CC?

Take care,
-Randi-

Phew, glad to hear some good news about Lauren.  Prayers for her recovery.
...and wait, I am definitely in line for the Lainy Cleaning Service!  I'll make kugel. smile

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(13 replies, posted in General Discussion)

Oh my Lisa.  Hope you get some relief soon.

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(12 replies, posted in Members' Cafe)

Amazing!

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(38 replies, posted in General Discussion)

Sending positive thoughts and many prayers for Lauren.

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(11 replies, posted in Good News / What's Working)

Hello cc family,

I had my 6 month scan (at the 3.5 year post-surgery mark) and it was clear.  I met my new oncologist (Aram Hezel) and he is very nice.  Does a lot of cellular research on CC.

Thank you all for the strength you give me.

-Randi-

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(9 replies, posted in Grief Management)

Jeeyoung,

I am so very sorry to hear about your dear Mom.  I wish I had something to say to take away the pain and emptiness you must be feeling right now.  Please accept my sincerest condolences.  I hope that your wonderful memories will soon replace the sadness you are feeling now.

Hugs,
-Randi-

Amen Marion!

Mary,

So sorry to hear what you are going through.  You have an absolutely amazing attitude and that will serve you well.  I will be sending good thoughts your way for Monday, hoping they can place the stent and get your bilirubin down.

((Hugs))
-Randi-

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(15 replies, posted in Introductions!)

So glad to hear this update on your mother!!  Sounds like she is a trooper and is enjoying life on it's terms.  Hope things stay stable for her for years to come.

Thank you for the update.

-Randi-

Hello MomfromtheBronx,

I can only speak from my own experience. I agree that to do chemo or not is a very frequent question on this site.  In fact, I think it was the first question I asked when I got on this site when I was first diagnosed.

I had Whipple surgery since my CC was outside the liver in the bile duct near my pancreas.  They got all of the cancer and the pathology showed that I had no lymph node involvement.  My Oncologist said that if there had been lymph node involvement he would strongly suggest chemo, but because there was none, he left the decision up to me (but he leaned toward doing it).  Like others, I was not very keen about doing chemo, but the doctor said that the type I would get (Gemzar) is "well tolerated".  He also made the point that if I didn't do it and this aggressive cancer returned, I may have regrets.

I opted to do chemo for 6 months and while it was no picnic, I was able to get through it and have not regretted doing it.

To chemo or not  is such a personal decision and as Lainy said there are a lot of things to take into consideration (age, stage, health).  No one can tell you whether it will help or not, so it's mostly a crap shoot.

I wish you and your mother the best and let us know how things are going.

Hugs,
-Randi-

Carrie,

I am wishing your husband great good luck with his chemo today.  As Lainy and Marion have said, a routine of sorts will settle in and you will be in fight mode. 

Let us know how he (and you) are doing.

Hugs,
-Randi-

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(38 replies, posted in General Discussion)

This is fabulous news Pam!!  I saw your post in FB and felt so much relief and joy that Lauren had made it through and is on the road to recovery.  She is truly a miracle. You must be exhausted both emotionally and physically after the day you had.  Take care of yourself.  I wish a speedy and (as Nancy said) uneventful recovery for Lauren.  On to the wedding!!

Hugs
-Randi-

Hello,

I had 6 months of Gemzar and my platelet count was always very high.  Now I haven't had chemo in 3 years and my platelet count is still above the normal index. I did see a hemotological oncologist and she said that I was fine.

My guess is that that is my "normal" and it was that way before chemo and after, so I can't say that chemo caused a rise in it.

Hope your Dad is doing well.

-Randi-

Hello my CC family.

I have my 5 month scan tomorrow (I am 3.5 years since my whipple surgery) and the scanxiety is starting to creep up on me today.  I can say that scanxiety is happening for shorter periods of time overall, but then I fear I am letting my guard down.  I have no time for CC!!  I have lots to do.

I know I have all of your support here and I cannot tell you how grateful I am that you are all behind me all the time.

Hugs to all.
-Randi-

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(13 replies, posted in General Discussion)

Oh Lisa,
I am so sorry about the itchy hives.  I have no suggestions but I hope others will have something to say that will help.
-Randi-

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(10 replies, posted in General Discussion)

So here is my input on the MRI v. PET scans.  From my understanding PET scans have many more false positives then MRIs.   PETs show areas of uptake of 'sugar' which may mean cancer but can also be inflammation (like arthritis). This can cause unnecessary follow up procedures and tests that could be unnecessary.

I have had cancer three times and have NEVER had a PET scan.  So it is not unusual for docs not to want to do PET scans.

Just my personal experience, I am not a doctor smile
-Randi-

Hi Tyler,

I am so very sorry to hear about your sister-in-law.  I had chemotherapy (Gemzar) after a whipple procedure, so I don't have much information about the combination of chemo that your SIL is on.  I did, however, alter my diet in small ways.  I stopped eating red meat and any processed food.  I discussed this with my oncologist and he supported my diet change. 

I also did Reiki all through chemotherapy and acupuncture which I still do.  I spoke with a counselor and went on anti-depressants to help with sleep and appetite and anxiety.

While I would not attribute my health to these practices, I think that they helped with my mental state by allowing  me a sense of control which in turn benefited me in other ways.

Best wishes to your SIL and she is lucky to have you to advocate for her.

Hugs,
-Randi-

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(12 replies, posted in Introductions!)

Hi Christine,

Welcome to the site and so sorry that you had a reason to find it.  You will find so much really good information here.  And as you can see by the previous posts, everyone is very willing to help in any way they can.

I went to the Mayo Clinic in Rochester, MN, for a second opinion a couple of years ago.  I saw Dr. Grothey and he was very nice and just confirmed to be that I was doing the things that he would have recommended as well.  That Mayo Clinic is a well-oiled machine and it just gave comfort to be there knowing that they really know what they are doing.

Please keep us posted on your husband's progress.  My thoughts are with you.

Hugs,
-Randi-

This is such fabulous news!  You must be excited and nervous at the same time.  Congrats!