Thank you for your replies. Just an update about my dad. He is at home since August the 26th and trying to face his disease. It's not being easy for him since he's terribly pessimistic, he's even doing plans for his funeral!
He'll have his first appointment with the oncologist next Monday and he's decided to ask him about for how long he will be alive.
I told him that doctors are not Gods to know about our expiration date.
I'm trying to uplift his mood all the time as much as I can, but sometimes it's tiring. I wish he put something from his side.
I guess it must be just a matter of time until he gets used to the situation.
I've read lots of posts here and I've found a lot of useful information. I cried and I smiled with some stories too.
To all the wonderful people here, enjoy life as fullest and don't keep things for retirment (I used to say this to my father, but he never listened to me).
I guess dad will begin soon with chemotherapy.
My best wishes for everybody,