Hi, cholangotango,
I agree, it's a great name!
And I'm so happy to hear the word stable! I also hope you keep us informed on all aspects of this trial, from keeping your dad stable or better yet, shrinkage, to any side effects.
Yes, cc is extremely scary, but at least the hope for a cure or stability is growing every day. And I completely understand leaving one onc for another facility... I did it after 2 years. Kudos to you for being such a great advocate! Good luck to your dad. It sounds like you're on a good track.


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I'm not sure what I am... What family member is a "cookie", anyway?? smile


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Duke, it is my understanding that as long as you had no bad reactions you can try the original chemo again. But your onc may want to switch it up as the tumor(s) may have built up tolerance to it.  Good luck! I live with stable!! Have grown to love that word!

I never had cisplatin so I can't specifically say, but I did have oxaliplatin. And I had nausea after the third round. And, yes, often I had to RUN to the bathroom! The dry heaves were worse for me,so I stopped the anti nausea drugs and just let it roll. After an hour I was fine.
Normally, unfortunately, once you've had the side effect you don't lose it. Hopefully it doesn't get worse.
Keep on keepin on! You WILL get thru this! Cheering for you! Praying, too.

What great news!! LOVE LOVE LOVE reading this post! Here's to more clean scans and a great lessening of scanxiety!


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I had the sequencing done, and have yet to receive a bill. So I'm hoping Medicare and my supplement covered it. I agree it has a long way to go, but the day is near! In 3 years, so much has changed!
From the sequencing, as mentioned above, it was determined I have the same mutations as some breast cancer. And there is a trial specifically targeting this mutation. So, while the trial I am on is still working, my onc and I have decided to let the many breast cancer researchers and fighters do the first part of the breast cancer trial. I will wait and jump to that trial when the time comes.
And, I will have to add that you may have to fight for coverage from your insurance company for non-approved treatment for cc. It can be a pain, but use your onc and staff, and your insurance company's nurse navigators.

Great news! I'm happy for you! Please keep posting your good news on here... We love reading it!


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Lainy, here's my easy... She doesn't eat the gravy!! If you don't have time to experiment, apologize to her that it is not gluten free. Sounds yummy, too! What time is dinner? If I leave now I might make it! smile


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Happy, happy birthday, dear Marion! Sorry I missed this yesterday. I hope you had a fantastic day, and many more wonderful birthdays ahead!

Lainy, good to hear you enjoyed your lunch! Always fun to meet new NICE people, whether it goes anywhere or not. I hope it does, for you. You deserve happiness (not that you aren't happy, but...)
It was only mid nineties here yesterday. Chilly for you! lol

You can find humor anywhere! smile
Good luck with your date. May he be better than my last one. Actually, he was nice. Just not for me.

Hi Helen, sorry you had to find us. I, too, think your post was beautiful. I try to remember to appreciate every day I wake up, also. If this journey has taught me one thing it's that you never know what's around the corner.
I'm sorry Bonnie is declining so rapidly, but am glad she has her family and a very special friend to support and love her.
My thoughts and prayers go out to you and Bonnie.


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I'm so sorry you have to go through this. I'm sorry any of us have to deal with this disease! It stinks! But please, try to focus on your life and your love. I know what I want to say, but I can't find the words....
Just know my thoughts are with you and your family. I wish this journey were easier, and, yes, it stinks! So when you need to, come on here and YELL!!!!

I had to cancel my vaca... Boo!
The onc says I should not be in contact with her for 2-3 weeks. CDC says if the shingles are still kitten-spam and haven't scabbed over, there is a chance of contagion. Especially for people with immune issues (chemo for one), pregnant people too.
I have had chicken pox, and a small shingles eruption on my arm during college. At least that's what they said it was.
Thankfully I purchased travel insurance, so I can use it another time. But I don't get to see my family. sad

Sending lots of prayers for good results with this new trial! Please keep us posted.


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It is hard to respond to this post. I am so sorry you have to go through all of this at the same time. Loss is hard, whether it be a person who has passed or one who is still living.
I have come to realize that some people were only meant to be in my life for a period of time. Sometimes that is little comfort, but the stress of "normal" living is hard enough. Add cancer and/or personal loss and it is sometimes more than a friendship or relationship can bear.
I hope you can begin to heal soon. It doesn't necessarily mean you won't hurt, but hopefully you find your strength to keep going. Eventually it will become easier.

Thanks. My question arose because they suggested my dad get the shot.

I know this is an odd question, but has anyone had to deal with being near someone with shingles? I thought they weren't contagious, but my mom has them and my dad got a shot. They asked him when he finished his chemo and he couldn't remember. They contacted his onc.
I will be arriving Tuesday to my parents... 7 days after mom started meds. Should I be worried?
I'm not on "chemo" chemo. I'm on an inhibitor and my blood counts are good. I would worry if my platelets or RBC or WBC were low  but they are ok.
I guess I need to call the weekend staff to see if I should worry, but thought I'd ask.

The ones I know will be a drive, but the closest I can think of is cooper med center. They just teamed up with md Anderson a while ago.
Or the 2 hour drive to Fox Chase. My onc is Dr. Crystal Denlinger. I love love love her! They have teamed up with Temple.
There are a few in Philadelphia, but I would go to Fox Chase first. U of Penn is another.
And if he wants to travel a bit farther, there is NYC and Memorial Sloane Kettering, but I would not suggest Dr. Nancy Kemeny. Or NY Presbyterian , where Dr. Kato is, as far as I know.

I hope this helps.


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Hey!! I was on here before the OTHER Kris! lol And I'm a moderator, too! Why aren't I the "STAR"???  sad
I'm 6'1"... Definitely NOT a Krissy! Maybe we can call her that! lol
I have tried to destress my life as much as possible. I don't sweat the small stuff, as we say.

I need to chime in here about MSKCC. They are a research hospital. Depending on the onc, you might get an idea about another facility. But they don't make money by sending their patients elsewhere. In my case, Dr. Nancy Kemeny would never suggest she isn't the best. I tried to talk to her about trials and she basically said... Look around and see if you find something. It's up to you.
As far as the "cherry-picking": they are talking about a specific group of cc patients getting a specific protocol. Yes, it would be wonderful if we were all diagnosed at an operable stage. Then cc would have a much better success rate. For many trials, even, they look for a specific group of cc patients. The lucky ones have success.


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Emad, I would post a pic but I have never figured out how to do that! lol   Other than the profile pic, that is.
I tease my mom about the same thing. They live quite far away now, so I only get to see them a couple of times a year. But when my brother visits, she makes dumplings and an egg breakfast specialty. When I visit, she has ME make dumplings and the egg breakfast! :-D
By the way, I still have too much singing to do to go anywhere! But when I was diagnosed, it was a big thought in my head, and it's never quite gone away.
Dating is hard. I'm gonna try to make you laugh... When I meet people, and then tell them my deep secret, I tell them I'm not a good bet for a really long term relationship!! I know, dark humor. This is one of the toughest parts of living with this disease: when to tell and how. It's been 3years and I still haven't figured that out!

I agree with Carl about the love you have for your mom... It shines through your posts.

Oh, by the way, I think you were smiling a bit earlier when you teased me about my scooter! :-)


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Carl and Lynn,

I know this has been such a tough road. I'm so glad to have met you both, even if only briefly. You are so supportive of each other, it has been wonderful to see that in your relationship.

Lynn, my prayers are with you now and forever. I pray for comfort, love, and peace for you.

Carl, my prayers are with you for love, strength, support, and strength as this time passes. Please give Lynn a warm heart-felt hug and kiss from me.

The break is a go! 15 days without these drugs! I'm hoping I lose 15 lbs!! lol
Realistically, I'll take 10 lbs. and the flight is booked for next week. One week from today and I'll be in Alabama hanging with my bros and their families!! I can't wait!


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Emad, I worry about my what my family will have to endure, too. I am divorced, with no kids, so at least I don't have to worry about my children when I am gone. But most days I tell myself I am still "healthy" and something WILL be found soon!
I wonder if your mom enjoyed cooking?? Maybe she and Teddy are adding to the menu for Teddy's restaurant!