Dear DCMAC and all of you who have responded. My husdband of 25 years too was "healthy" and bam! Our diagnosis came in May and we have tried chemo with no luck. More tumors on liver and lungs. Primary cc. I watch him everyday lose more and more of himself, energy not eating. I can't believe this is happening to "us". And yet it happens to many.
Lainy said she was blessed with 16 years more than may have in a life time! I try to think like that to and start to figure out my new norm. It is just so hard to think of life without my buddy!