Hello All:

I am not sure where best to put this post within the discussion boards but I felt that "In Remembrance" of Lynn would be the best place.

My daughter, Kristin, has been involved with "Cycle For Survival" (Memorial Sloan Kettering fundraiser for rare cancer research) the past two years since Lynn passed away in July, 2014.

Her team, "Team Lynn" has raised $17K for this year's event, scheduled for March, 2016 in New York. That is double what they raised in their first year.

In her first year, Kristin was asked to speak to the group about what being part of Cycle for Survival meant. I've attached the video from the event:  http://youtu.be/ehHh1rjp6Aw
You may have to copy and paste the you tube link into your internet browser to view it.

Kristin recently sent a message to her sponsors. It describes how money from last year's event went directly to fund a trial for Cholangiocarcinoma. I am including excerpts from that message.

Her message:
"With just under 3 weeks to go until we ride, I wanted to send out an update on what Cycle for Survival is doing for rare cancer, thanks to every single one of the dollars you have donated.
TEAM LYNN IN NEW LIQUID BIOPSY SYSTEM LAB: Cycle for Survival’s December challenge was to raise $1.2MM to support the new Liquid Biopsy System at MSKCC – a transformative technology that enables researchers to study cancer more comprehensively by simply drawing a patient’s blood. Doctors say this is a game changer in the cancer world.

Read more here: https://www.cycleforsurvival.org/decemberchallenge

Together the Cycle for Survival community achieved this goal and due to your generosity, Team Lynn was able to raise $1,000/bike for the challenge and therefore “TEAM LYNN” will forever have its name inscribed in the new liquid biopsy system lab. Thank you.
2015 FUNDING ALLOCATIONS: Many of you donated last year as well and I wanted to make sure you saw where every single dollar of those donations went. Here is Cycle for Survival’s 2015 funding allocation information: https://www.cycleforsurvival.org/2015-f … llocations

$1,000,000 went to “directed support” which includes a project focused solely on cholangiocarcinoma (My mom’s cancer).  The description reads: “Cholangiocarcinoma: Drs. Scott Lowe and Maeve Lowery are developing treatments to more effectively target genetic mutations in bile duct cancer; information about drug sensitivity and resistance learned through models created in the lab will benefit patients currently enrolled in clinical trials for these therapies.”

Thank you from the bottom of my heart, and from my team, for your support. Not only does it mean the world, but it’s helping to drastically change the rare cancer world.

Love, Kristin"

I am very proud of Team Lynn and all they've done to help fund research. I am especially proud of my daughter for leading this charge.

There is hope. Each day we get closer to solving this challenging puzzle called Cholangiocarcinoma. It's because we are fighting this battle together that strides are being made.

Love to all patients, caregivers and moderators associated with this battle.



(7 replies, posted in In Remembrance)

I don't even know where to start.

To my beautiful wife:
I love you and miss you so very much. I try to get by without you but it hurts so much. I try to get involved in all the things that meant so much to us, but it feels so shallow now. I try to be more like you with our children, but you were so good at being "you" that it backfires when I try.

I try to be me, but I no longer know who that is. My life has lost meaning and purpose, but I will not say that to my children nor mother-in-law, who I love dearly.

Today, I have cried since the minute I awoke. I don't know why today was the day that this came crashing down on me. I have had tough days since you left us, but today is most definitely the worst.

To my CCF friends:
I do want to thank you for all the help and consolation you provided during these past 2 years. You were most definitely my "go to" place, and people,  for support, information, and guidance. I can't begin to tell you how hard it is to even log in anymore.

I know the people on this board care deeply about each other and want to help in every way they can. I have so much respect for you because - even in your own situation - you want to help others. I tried to do that while I was helping navigate the path forward for Lynn. But with Lynn gone, it's so very hard to even think about this horrible cancer, let alone try to think about how I can help others going through this.

Hopefully, someday I'll be able to re-energize and help others with the "lessons learned" while dealing with this disease.

I have already found out that holidays have been changed forever. And someday, maybe the family holidays of Thanksgiving and Christmas will have a new meaning. This year, they remind me of the pain. I wish I could be more positive during this special time of year.

Regardless, I want to truly think all of you and wish that you can find a way to have a happy holiday season.

Carl Scheitrum


(8 replies, posted in Members' Cafe)

How does one say thank you to a global group of people you never met in person but want them to be by your side each moment?

As we continue this difficult journey, I had to step back in so I could personally thank each and every one of you for helping us.

In our current situation, I do not spend time on the discussion board because I want my time to be with Lynn and our children. Lynn fought with all her beautiful energy. But this insidious monster found different ways to attack and grow. I know in my heart it has been harder watching Lynn struggle over the past few months as this disease took control. Now at least she is not in pain and can spend time saying her goodbye's to her children and her mother. That is a special gift.

I do NEED to thank all the moderators and all the persons who posting on these discussion boards. You are what is making a difference in helping to find better answers for this dreadful disease. It is your energy and determination to help make things better that will give others a better chance of survival than Lynn had.

Finally, to some very special "friends" whom I have met through these discussion boards, you have helped me so much. I don't know how to begin to thank you.

Stay strong,
Carl (for Lynn)


(19 replies, posted in Members' Cafe)

Dear Emad,

You brought me out of my "brief" retirement.

You have shown so much love for your mother and your own situation. And then you have gone out of your way to encourage and support others, like Lynn and I, as each of us deals with this horrible situation.

I want you to know I think of you because you are exhibiting all the qualities and challenges of a special daughter to a special mom. I am observing that every day as my dear daughter is so fully involved in helping her mother. They were more than mother-daughter, they were more than best friends. They were one. I have lots of stories to explain that but I believe you understand without further explanation.

Having said that - you must stay strong for you. And you must live your life to the fullest because that is what you were meant to do.

If I can do anything to help you through your pain, just let me know.

Take care,


(57 replies, posted in Members' Cafe)


I swore I  wasn't going to go to this website tonight as I was not in the right frame of mind.

Life just dealt us a terrible hand and there is no way to change it. Lynn has struggled hard and suffered enough. We are moving to hospice. Your words in your post ring true. We fought hard to gain an edge but the reality of this ugly disease proved overwhelming. This is an ugly disease and no one deserves to go through its challenges.

Like you, this may be my last post my friend. I am sorry we can't make that World Series game at Wrigley. I think we would have enjoyed it.

Take care dear friend. I wish you the best.


(9 replies, posted in Introductions!)

Are the tumors themselves causing the swollen belly ? That is how it began with my wife. Her stomach was quite distended. The chemo reduced the size of the tumors which reduced the belly.

Also, we found Orgain to be a better tasting and more nutritious supplement than Ensure. If you can't find it locally, you can purchase it online.



(68 replies, posted in Suggestions)

Sorry for being AWOL. Life got in the way.

Spent 4 days in the hospital and away from my computer. That story is for another day. Right now just know if you have comments, questions, or issues, please post them here and I will make sure they are sent to the web team.



I echo what's already been said. Great news. I am very happy for you. Please relax a bit and enjoy this special time. As you well know, you need to cherish the times that great news comes your way.

Take care,


(9 replies, posted in Members' Cafe)

Hey Kris,

I wish it wasn't so, but your statements are correct. It seems like everyone has a family member of dear friend battling this disease. I just found out about 2 new cases of cancer within our circle of friends. It stinks.

You are a strong person. You will be able to help your friend in so many ways.

Take care,

Hey Gavin,

Great article. It;s nice to be able to read about places around the world where we now have "special" connections. And I did watch the movie multiple times. Your story brought things together.



(14 replies, posted in Introductions!)


You have experienced the worst pain of this horrible disease. And yet you came back to this site to share your feelings as well as to offer console to others.

That is very special.

Thank you,


Please know we are hoping the best for Andrea and for you. I am familiar with the aggressiveness of this disease. As a caregiver, you can never relax. You have to stay focused on dealing with the reality of each day while looking for alternatives for improved response to this disease.

You have done so much to research all scenarios regarding treatments and trials. You and Andrea will make the right decisions as you continue your journey.

I wish I could do more to help both of you right now. But I want you to know Lynn and I will be thinking of you.



(14 replies, posted in Suggestions)


Great comments/questions.

What I do when I want to save a specific post for future reference is to create/add a new bookmark in my web browser. At least it allows me to go back to the pages at a later time.

Your point. Is right on. It would be nice yo just mark those pages so you can go back to your list of merged pages.



(68 replies, posted in Suggestions)


Try using "doohickey" in all your comments to Rick. That should help him sort through the jibber jabber.

Take care my friend,


(68 replies, posted in Suggestions)

Lainy et al:

Rick also made changes to address your green menu bar issue. Now when your Internet Explorer (or other browser) window size is not the full width of the PC monitor, the links on the green bar (like "Home" or "About the Foundation", etc. ) do not show up - but a small circle with the word "Menu" appears.

Clicking on that menu button brings up the entire list of pages (links). You can move up or down that list to find the page you want to visit.



(68 replies, posted in Suggestions)

Hi Lainy,

It is a screen size thing. The page - and the green navigation bar - adjusts to the width of the screen. If you make the CCF webpage as wide as your computer screen or laptop screen, you should see all the navigation links. However, if you shrink the page, at some point the green bar does not show the links anymore and the round button contains all the links.

If you want your links back, try to make the whole page wider.



(68 replies, posted in Suggestions)


Could you clarify. Is she trying to register for the discussion boards or something else.



(9 replies, posted in Good News / What's Working)

My (our) congrats as well. It's a special landmark to reach the one year anniversary. You have exceeded all statistical data, in the positive way.

Enjoy your special time.

Carl and Lynn


(18 replies, posted in General Discussion)

What wonderful news as you start your summer.

I am very happy for you Lainy.



(68 replies, posted in Suggestions)

I have compiled all the comments from today and provided a summary document  which will be shared with the developer.

Keep those comments comin'



(16 replies, posted in Chemotherapy)


Thanks my friend. We provided the info regarding Losartan and its benefits with chemo to Lynn's doctor. He immediately switched her from Lisinopril to Losartan.

It is yet another small step on the road to recovery. That is our new goal. Let's take a small step each day that moves us closer to recovery.



(68 replies, posted in Suggestions)

I agree the overall performance of the new site is slower. I will communicate this.

For those users who have found links not working, please let me know the specific link(s) not working so I can provide that feedback to the developer.



(16 replies, posted in Chemotherapy)


Thanks for that info. I will look into this as an alternative to another biopsy.



(68 replies, posted in Suggestions)

The Cholangiocarcinoma.org website was recently updated with new styles and much greater content. This website has become a primary source of information, research, discussion, and compassion for so many people associated with this disease. I'd like to suggest we create a Blog Topic to provide feedback regarding this new website. In that way, we will help strengthen the site for all of us and for those now searching for a resource like this.

I suggest adding posts regarding positive feedback about this new site as well as when you find items that may need to be addressed. For example, I think the Biliary Emergency Information Card which was introduced along with this new site is a great idea. Likewise, I am looking forward to the Patient Registry.

On the constructive side, I have read posts from others regarding links not working and the green menu banner overshadowing text and content.

If we can post this feedback in a common topic area, I would be glad to help communicate this information to the board members who are working with the web developer.

If others feel this suggestion would be beneficial, please add your posts. If it gains momentum, maybe someone who knows how to create a "Sticky" can add a sticky to this so it stays active.

Thanks, in advance, for your comments.


(3 replies, posted in General Discussion)

I agree with Lainy. You may want to get a second opinion or even find a new onc.

Folfox is a standard chemo treatment. It consists of Fluoroucil (5-FU) plus oxaliplatin (like cisplatin) and folnic acid which helps the 5-FU work better.