(6 replies, posted in Members' Cafe)

Had an impromptu family reunion last week.  About 10 members from my side of the family.  More to follow when I post some pix.  Aimee and I renewed our weeding vows.  BTW, it was a secret for Aimee.


First the bad news.  Novartis is only willing to let in someone with breast cancer under compassionate use.

Second news. I started docetaxel today.  I will be taking a WBC enhancer tomorrow to help with that.

This is my possible  record - six treatments.  Has any exceeded this?

1.  gem/cis
2.  gem/carbo
3   gem
5.  irinotaxel
6.  docetaxel

CT after 4 rounds



(15 replies, posted in General Discussion)

My current (second) onc doesn't pay any attention to CA19-9.  He only pays attention to C scan data.  I believe based on my own data the relative movement (increase/decrease) can provide useful information.


I am currently a patient of Dr. Davendra Sohal at the Cleveland Clinic Taussig Cancer Center. Prior to that I was a patient at the Mentor UH/Lake Hospital Seidman Cancer Center.

Dr. Sohal is good, but not as aggressive as my desires are.  If I all things were equal (but they seldom are) I would go to MDA.  From what I read here, they are far more knowledgeable and aggressive.  Up until the Fat Lady (valkyrie Brünnhilde) steps up for her aria, I'm going to try everything I can.

You need to determine what you expect from an oncologist and find one who delivers.  And remember, this is all about the life (quality and quantity) of a loved one - accept nothing but the best.

Forget the statistics.  Some of us pass only weeks after initial diagnosis.  Others live for 10+ years.  Since you and your husband are the "nerds", don't get hung up with "analysis paralysis".  Do the best you can and don't look back.  Right now I'd say that getting started now is more important than finding the best treatment.  Have your FIL keep a journal with dates and people and what was discussed, symptoms, what he ate, how much he moved arougn, Depending on the diagnosis, he may be able to slide out with a "simple" surgical procedure.  Or he may have to undergo chemo (cisplatin/gemcitibine is the "standard" for initial chemo).  Once you get a firm diagnosis, search in here for more details/recommendations.

You can reach any of us privately by e-mail if you don't want to go public.

You are in good hands here and better hands at MDA.  Get moving.  You are at step 1.  There's more for you to learn.


You need to talk with your insurance company to see how much they will pay.  My company is Anthem, but you will have another.  Here is a link to their policy on molecular profiling:

https://www.anthem.com/medicalpolicies/ … 150728.htm

They denied my claim but FoundationOne was able to negotiate a bill of $1000.00, down from the original $5000.00 (amounts are estimated but fairly close).

I know you will have the testing done, no matter what the cost, but you should know what you will have to pay, just to avoid the shock of the denial when you get the bill.  You don't need any more stress.



(5 replies, posted in Members' Cafe)

I thought cremation was a done deal with Aimee, but when I brought it up, she was surprised.  When I told her my plans, she agreed that was the way to handle it.  Some of our favorite places in the US.  That means that we are relying on our kids to fulfill our wishes, but I think they will agree that this is the best way.  BTW, they involve several bodies of water and sequoias.



(4 replies, posted in Members' Cafe)

The earliest registration I could find was Jan. 6, 2006.

Any plans to celebrate?



(19 replies, posted in Members' Cafe)

I may be her #1 cheerleader, but there is no question that her husband is her soul mate.

I will pass along the thanksgiving from all of you.

There is always hope.



(19 replies, posted in Members' Cafe)

Great news!

Surgery went well.  She has six weeks off then will start radiation, then see where to go after that.  Her mindset is definitely better than it was.

Thanks for all the prayers.


Diane -
Attitude is so important - that can't be over-emphasized.  Yours is a winner.

Two things to stick in the back of your mind.  I and several others, experienced discomfort on the right side of the body, either front or back, just at the bottom of the rib cage.  We also felt this in our right shoulders.  Kind of like you over-extended while playing tennis or golf, or yard work.  Let you onc know if you experience either of these.

Hang in there.  Let your husband and kids know how important they are to you and getting better.  You might think "They already know that".  True, but say it often anyway.  Followed by a great big hug and kiss.



(7 replies, posted in General Discussion)

Thanks guys.  I took a couple on the chin yeserday but I'm back up on my feet now.  Time to re-read what I've advised others and put my name at the beginning as well as the end.

Will let you know which path Aimee and I go down.



(18 replies, posted in Chemotherapy)

My early experience with steroids was that they wired me.  Frequently I was up all night, only geting to sleep after 7:00 am.


CT scan last Friday showed that irinotecan was no longer working.  No evidence it ever did.  Irinotecan before that showed little effect - maintaining stable is the best that might be said of it.

Trying to get into AG-120 trial (NCT02073994).  If that falls through, docetaxel appears to be the last apple in the basket.  Main problem with trials is that my platelets have steadied about at about 83,000.  Most require above 100,000.



(12 replies, posted in General Discussion)

Sandy -
Getting into the discussion about AG-120 a little.  Irinotecan is not working so onc is looking into AG-120.

I like the idea of pills instead of infusion, but 24 pills a day for 28 days is beyond belief.

Any insight you can give me will be gratefully accepted.  Info from anyone on AG-120 will be welcome.



Whiskey IS the answer; to another question.



(11 replies, posted in Grief Management)

Maybe it's because I'm a guy or I'm the patient, but as I read your post over and over, it seemed to me to be a testimony to the love you and Mark shared.  And this is why I am not afraid of dying.  I know that part of me will live on.  I'm devastated because I won't see my grandchildren born and grow up; there are so many plans that will never be fulfilled.  Aimee and I will not grow old together - no Golden Pond for us.  Which is why we have to take advantage of the time we have.

Your post is one of the finest eulogies one could hope for.  Mark is proud.

As for you, "One day at a time" still holds true.


I am surviving 23 months after initial diagnosis of non-operable IHC and still going, just like the Energizer bunny (Cuz - not a word about how I might look good in pink).  I have posted elsewhere about my first oncologist and her treatments and why I am on oncologist #2.

I had many of your mother's initial symptoms - heard the same story about six months if I did not start chemo.  About the survival time - you can find stories here about patients who have survived years beyond what was initially diagnosed.  Absolutely no reason why your mother can't be one of those success stories.  As a few others have said in other topics "We don't come with an expiration date stamped on our heels."

Same issue with inexperience of the oncologist.  The entire center had only seen four patients in three years.  The time for the biopsy results to come back may simply be because it was done off site - shipping, handling, and waiting in the queue probably took most of that time.  One suggestion - make sure any excess biopsy material is sent to which ever hospital you choose.  It might save time.  Also get any slides returned - all of this is your mother's body - her property, not your oncologist or the lab doing the biopsy.  Might save the new onc some time.

Just to add one more on the band wagon - you need to put as many miles between you/your mother and that onc/gastro as soon as possible.

I started chemo about two weeks after being diagnosed, so you have time - don't panic.  As said by others, there are many reasons to be hopeful.  But this roller coaster has its downs as well as its ups for both of you.  Your lives are changed.  That will take time (and probably some tears) to adjust to.  Normal.

Something to start immediately - live your lives.  We all know there's an elephant in the room (can smell the peanuts on his breath) but that's no reason to drive you to desperation.  Take time to look at the "signatures" at the bottom of some of the members of these boards - they are our philosophies.  You won't find a surrender in any of them.  Then sit down with your mother and write YOUR philosophies.  You don't have to add them here but you will have them to help you through the dark times.  Not sure if you ever saw the "Red Green Show" on PBS.  One of the recurring segments has him ending with "Remember, I'm pulling for you.  We're all in this together."

Peace, and good night.



(6 replies, posted in Members' Cafe)

Check to see if there differences between what is available on "Hulu" and "Hulu Plus".


"I'm cured." - The best words in the English language.



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Remember, we appreciate the sunshine even more after the rain.



(2 replies, posted in General Discussion)

I am currently seeing Dr. Sohal.  He is very straight forward.  He has answered the questions I wanted answers to.  He seems to have several strategies in his bag, not just the conventional gem/cis, gem, FOLFOX6, and then "I'm done".  He is heading up a clinical trial - LEE011 for Patients With CDK4/6 Pathway Activated Tumors (SIGNATURE) - NCT02187783 - which I wanted to get into but my platelets were too low, <100,000.  He's still a little conservative - I thought Mayo was a little more open to "out of he box" thinking.  He sees quite a few but not the number of patients that Mayo does so he is not familiar with some of the more "exotic" treatments.  But he is still much better than the onc I was seeing at the local branch of University Hospital's Seidman Cancer Center in Mentor.

He is familiar with Lisa Craine's history.  Interesting that he knew her by name, not just "Patient 1234".

I'm satisfied with his care.



(7 replies, posted in General Discussion)

You've found the only way to handle this (and all other cancers).

Every day is a new miracle - treasure it.


You might want to do some research on Virginia Mason (Seattle)  (University of Washington Medical Center?) simply because they are closer.  But Mayo and MDA are definitely top-shelf, no doubt about it.

One suggestion before you order genomic testing - make sure you KNOW if it is in-network or how much it will cost you based on your insurance coverage.  My onc said she thought it was free.  Guess again.  Billed at $5000 but "only" paid $1000 because it was out-of-network.  But, it's the only game in town if you are looking for that level of info.  I used FoundationOne but I think there are more out there.



(19 replies, posted in Members' Cafe)

Can't find the right place for this, so I went back to my old favorite.

My youngest sister (she's 75) just found out she has "pre-stage 1 breast cancer."  (My next older sister had breast cancer about five years ago when she was in her mid 70's.)   Not sure what that really means so if anyone can help with that, please chime in.  Is there a site similar to ours, with boards, for breast cancer patients?

I've written dozens of posts here trying to comfort those with CCA.  But having a face to write to, especially a sister, is so much harder.  For those who have thought about it, I can assure you (at least in my case) it's harder being a supporter than the patient.  And I'm two hours away.  It would be even worse if I could see her every day.

It should come as no surprise that the words are independent of the cancer type.

Thanks for listening, folks.  I believe that a load shared is a load lessened.  I know I can count on you.


Is there a similar study for those patients who did not get a resection?