Topic: SIGNS FROM LOVED ONES

After loved ones cross over, they are anxious to let us know they are okay and are aware of what is going on in our lives. If we are not able to feel them around us, they will often give us signs that we cannot ignore. The person who is given the sign usually knows he or she is receiving a message from the other side. You do not have to look for signs – the signs will come to you.The signs our loved ones give us most often are:
They come through as an animal. Our loved ones are able to use their energy to go inside of an animal, such as a butterfly, ladybug, bird, or dragonfly – for a brief period of time. The animal does something it usually would not do, such as land on us, peck at our window, scream at us, etc.
•    They place common objects such as feathers, coins, or rocks in our path. Our loved ones like to place things over and over again in our path that were significant to them. 
•    They give off fragrances. We can often tell our deceased loved ones are around us when we smell their perfume, flowers, cigar or cigarette smoke, or any other familiar smell they had. There is usually no logical explanation of why the smell is there.
•    They make songs come on at the perfect time. We know they are around when their favorite songs come on at the right time with the exact words we need to hear. 
•    They come to us in dreams. One of the easiest ways for them to come through to us is in our dreams. All we need to do is to ask them to come, and they will. However, we should ask them to wake us up after they come, or else we will not remember the dream. A dream that is a true visitation will be very peaceful and we will know it is truly our loved one. We will remember this type of dream in detail many years later. (On the other hand, a subconscious dream may be frightening or feel bad. This type of dream is not your loved one.)
•    They allow us to feel peaceful for no reason. When our loved ones are in the room, they usually make us feel so loved and at peace. It usually happens at the most unsuspecting time, so there is no logical explanation for our sudden bliss.
•    They place thoughts in our head. Because they in spirit form, our loved ones don’t have an audible voice. Therefore, they give us messages telepathically. Pay attention to thoughts that just “pop” into your head.
•    They love to play with electricity. They turn electricity on and off. They like to flicker lights, turn the television and radio on and off, and make appliances beep for no apparent reason.
•    They make buzzing noises in our ears. Because our loved ones speak to us on a different, higher frequency, we may hear ringing in our ears when they are trying to get our attention. This is a sign telling you to listen to what they are saying.
The list can go on and on, but these are the most common ways they let us know they are around. If you haven’t received any of these signs, simply ask your loved ones to come to you to let you know they are okay. Be patient .
And always say thank you!

Teddy ~In our hearts forever~ATTITUDE is EVERYTHING
Any suggestion I offer is intended as friendly advice based solely on my own experience. Please consult your doctor for professional guidance.

Re: SIGNS FROM LOVED ONES

Lainy, I am starting to feel a love/not-so-much-love relationship with you wink  When I read posts like this I start crying because I know the pain John will go through with my passing.  And honestly, although I imagine we can be 'with' our loved ones, I feel I will miss him terribly.  I just hate that I have to put him through all of this!!!

On the other hand, you always take your topics into a positive direction...hence my love for you and your posts.  Your Teddy is a great guy, giving you signs of his love and support.  When I see him - which will be a long time from now! - I will have to ask him for some tips smile

I seldom cry about all of this nonsense we go through, so I suppose a good cry is due now and then, cathartic I suppose.  So again, I am leaning more towards loving you and your positive attitude.

Take Care, Renée

Re: SIGNS FROM LOVED ONES

Hi Renee and thank you so much. The reason I post quite a bit on this subject is that by believing, it beings me such comfort. Others have reported the same. I think it is perfectly normal to feel as you do but don't jump the gun! You just make sure to let me know, and it will be WAY down the road but I have connections to Teddy's Italian restaurant up there and will see to it that you have a reservation. Teddy was always the meeter and greeter in his life and I am sure that has not changed with him being in the 'next' room. Renee, T and I made a signal that no matter who left first we would know that person would be around by lightly touching the cheek. Well, he has not mastered the cheek yet but for 2 years I get a sensation of light touching on my head/hair and sometimes it will move down to my ears then the side of my face. Just yesterday I was sitting here at the computer and having a little melt down about trying to get set up for this Remicade for my U.C. and all of a sudden came the touching. I have a dear friend and her husband was in the Shrine with T and he passed (heart) 4 months after T and she gets this touchy feel as well. As for how we got through the journey I swear we did it by trying to live normally and laughing. Laughing a lot!  We also were very open in our discussions and we talked so much about everything, you can tell that the way I write. One last thing. You will NOT miss him, you will be very happy, I know I have heard that from T how happy he is. You will spend your time thinking of ways to let John know you are around and then you will drive him crazy with all your antics! Did you ever hear of Sylvia Brown the Psychic? Her 1st 2 books were the best and they erased any fear I may have had of dying. She really paints a good picture of the beyond and that is when I became a believer. BTW last NOV paid a visit to my daughter's friend/Psychic and T did come through, it was amazing as she said things that my daughter didn't even know. Oops sorry didn't mean to run off like this. FORGIVE THE LONG POST.
Again one last thing...crying is fine and also posting here is good as both are cathartic! Loving you back!

Teddy ~In our hearts forever~ATTITUDE is EVERYTHING
Any suggestion I offer is intended as friendly advice based solely on my own experience. Please consult your doctor for professional guidance.

Re: SIGNS FROM LOVED ONES

Hi Lainy.  Yes, I have heard of Silvia Brown, but have not read any of her books.  I'll have to put them on the list of Things to Do when I don't have the energy to do anything but read or watch TV.  Luckily, I am not there now...too much to do smile

Keep up the great work, Lainy.  You are one of the many blessings on this board.

Have a peaceful evening, and I hope your tummy behaves tonight.  Renée