Thanks Marion and yes, I so agree that this is a very important issue and needs highlighted for carers. It's tough being a carer as you know. Yes, I was helping out with my grandad as well when he was staying at mum and dads during the last few years of his life. Mum's copd had not long been diagnosed back then and my dad was still working, no sign of CC back then.
Here's another link with video in it on this male carer issue from the BBC today -
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