Topic: CAREGIVERS TAKE CARE

I went for my pre-op today and received this list for caregivers on what to do to take care of them selves. I thought it was excellent because taking care of yourself is one of the best things you can do for your loved one!

*Be kind to yourself-don't over schedule your life at a stressful time.
*Rather than sitting for long periods of time, take a walk, even if its just to the cafeteria, outside or the gift shop (my favorite).
* Make sure you get enough sleep and rest.
*East several small meals a day and stay well hydrated. Its easy to forget to nourish yourself while you are worried about someone else.
*Ask for help if you need it both at home as well as at the hospital.
*Allow extra time to get ready and to drive to and from the hospital. Stress can cause accidents. Wear your seat belt!
*Request a blanket if you are cold.
*Carry a pad of paper and a pen with you to write down questions for the doctor or nurse.
*Ask for a visit from a spiritual care adviser if it will bring you comfort.
*Seek the advise of your own health care professional if you feel the events in your life are too overwhelming to handle.
PLEASE TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF....we are needed!

THANK YOU FOR LOVING ME! Teddy ~In our hearts forever~ATTITUDE is EVERYTHING
Any suggestion I offer is intended as friendly advice based solely on my own experience. Please consult your doctor for professional guidance.

Re: CAREGIVERS TAKE CARE

Thank you, Lainy, for that well-timed advice.  I found yesterday very tough & went to bed last night feeling near burnout.  Today my emotions are very close to the surface & I have another tough day scheduled.

Your list has brought me up with a jolt.

I'll print them off & keep them with me.

“When it is dark enough, you can see the stars." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

Re: CAREGIVERS TAKE CARE

Good. I know its easier said than done but we need to keep telling ourselves that our loved ones need us. From experience, I feel we need to rest as then our stress level is much better and we can deal better with everything. I know one thing for sure, you are a wonderful sister!

THANK YOU FOR LOVING ME! Teddy ~In our hearts forever~ATTITUDE is EVERYTHING
Any suggestion I offer is intended as friendly advice based solely on my own experience. Please consult your doctor for professional guidance.