Topic: I miss you, Dad.

On June 15, 2012, 7 months and 1 day after diagnosis with stage IV CC, my Dad lost his battle with this evil, selfish bastard.  I was blessed to be with him when he passed away.

Our family requested that donations in his memory be made here, so that maybe in the future someone else will be spared our heartache.

I love you, Dad.  I miss you.

Re: I miss you, Dad.

So sorry to hear about your Dad.  My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.  I hope that soon your happy memories will replace your sadness.


Survivor of cholangiocarcinoma (2009), thyroid cancer (1999), and breast cancer (1994).

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I am so sorry to hear that your dad has passed.  You have my deepest sympathy.  Try to take comfort in knowing he is no longer suffering or in pain.  Keep him close to you forever in your heart and memories.

Love & Hugs,

"One Day At A Time"

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Your dad was lucky to have such a caring daughter; he is at peace now and will suffer no more.  I, too, was at my dad's side when he passed away a year and a half ago.  So, I know what you mean when you say you were blessed to be there.  My husband continues to fight this awful disease but he is very ill.  I pray that your family will find peace and comfort knowing that your dad is in a better place.  Sending lots of hugs your way,  PeggyP

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My Dad Rocks, I am so sorry about your wonderful Dad and please accept my heartfelt Sympathies.

From a book of blessings called "Benedictus" by John O'Donohue - Irish Poet & Philosopher
When you lose someone you love,
Your life becomes strange,
The ground beneath you becomes fragile,
Your thoughts make your eyes unsure;
And some dead echo drags your voice down
Where words have no confidence
Your heart has grown heavy with loss.
And though this loss has wounded others too,
No one knows what has been taken from you
When the silence of absence deepens.
There are days when you wake up happy;
Again inside the fullness of life,
Until the moment breaks
And you are thrown back
Onto the black tide of loss.
Days when you have your heart back,
You are able to function well
Until in the middle of work or encounter,
Suddenly with no warning,
You are ambushed by grief.
More than you, it knows its way
And will find the right time
To pull and pull the rope of grief
Until that coiled hill of tears
Has reduced to its last drop.
Gradually, you will learn acquaintance
With the invisible form of your departed;
And when the work of grief is done,
The wound of loss will heal
And you will have learned
And be able to enter the hearth
In your soul where your loved one
Has awaited your return
All the time.


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My thoughts and prayers are with you.  Sorry you lost your dad.  Take one day at a time and cherish the memories you have of him.  Pam

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I am so sorry to hear of your Dad's passing. Take comfort in knowing he will watch over you from Heaven. His spirit will live on in your heart. Bless you and your dear Dad.

Love and hugs,


My beautiful daughter, Lauren Patrice, will live on in my heart forever.

My comments, suggestions, and opinions are based on my experience as a caretaker for my daughter, Lauren and from reading anything I can get my hands on about Cholangiocarcinoma. Please consult a physician for professional guidance.

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Dear Mydadrocks,

I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your dad. Please accept my sincere condolences and know that right now my thoughts are with you and your family.


Any advice or comments I give are based on personal experiences and knowledge and are my opinions only, they are not to be substituted for professional medical advice. Please seek professional advice from a qualified doctor or medical professional.