I am so sorry to hear about your brother. I have also just lost my husband on January 17th at 12:10 a.m. My husband was telling me up until the day before he passed that we were going to beat this. My husband was the love of my life and my best friend and soulmate. We were surrounded by family and friends the day he passed. The kids and I will miss him dearly. If you ever need to talk or your sister in law needs someone to talk with, Iam here for both of you. My husbands celebration of life is this Wednesday January 24. I know our life will never be the same.