I am sorry that you had to find us and so sorry to hear what you and your husband are going through right now. I went through this with my dad in December of last year and I know how hard it is, he was only 65.
As Darla says, there is so much support here from people who have been through what you are going through right now so please keep coming back.
My best wishes to you and your family,
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