Hi Jules, I'm so so so sorry your Dad his having such a rough time. It sounds like he has considerable anxiety with all that is going on. His bravery helps keep his dignity intact I would suppose. You know Jules, my wife and I just had a talk the other evening about our togetherness and reaching out to each other. By the time we were done talking it came done to each of us were afraid of what to say worrying that it may be to up setting. Really what we were doing is just trying to protect each other from further worry and emotional burden. Well anyhoot we made a pact not to hold back anymore. We will share the good and bad followed with a little cuddle of support. Jules it's so difficult I know and I don't know what to say except as long as your Dad knows you are so proud of him and how such a brave man he is, and you love him dearly. Other than that, just being there for him as much as you can is the best anyone can expect.
Bet wishes to you Both!!!!!!
Take it to the Limit,One More Time! (Eagles)