Topic: Worried and Concerned!
Hi, I am new to this forum. My mother has had cholangiocarcinoma since about 2000. A year later she had 1/2 her liver and part of her diaphragm removed.....a horrendous surgery! She went through another major surgery later also. Then she has been through chemotherapy for a 2-3 years and a short round of radiation. She then was said to be in remission for the past 2 years or so. She has been in a lot of pain all the way through. For the past year and a half, she has been on Morphine around the clock along with stomach medicine and Phenergan and Ativan. She is allergic to so many things....so it is hard to get the right medicine. Well, yesterday she went to the ER and was told 2 of her ribs are deteriorating and they prescribed her Flexeril. She just recently had another CT scan which she has every 3 months and she gets those results on Friday along with her port flush. I just cannot bear to lose her. The doctors have been telling her it is a miracle she is here. They couldn't believe that she could be in remission for so long. But now I am so worried. My aunt said that it is possible it could be arthritis. I don't know. She is only 52 years old with three children (one being myself - her oldest daughter and best friend!) and two grandchildren 4 and almost 2 years old. She has so much to live for! I have prayed and prayed and prayed and prayed for her pain to cease and for her to be healed. I thought she told me once she read that a bone marrow transplant could cure this. But at this point she told me today that she is way too tired to go through anything else. I don't know what else to do?