Topic: Dealing with Holidays?????
I can't even deal with a regular day. Disaster strikes nearly everyday, maybe to some people it wouldn't be a disaster, but after it builds he over whelms you. I go to the doctor last week I told her about my breakdown last week she told me I needed to make a extra appointment with the therapist, and to remove the guns from my house. At the end of the week I had given the guns to my daughter and had made a appointment with the
therapist. She told me to call someone before it gets to the that point, 911 or the local call center. She also told me to get someone to do something with for the weekend.
Friday night after the meeting, I had lots of energy, I started to get things done at my house. As I was changing a light bulb, it broke and the bulb part out into my hand. I decided to listen to what Wayne would do, take needle nose plowers and remove the metal part, I didn't remember that the thing already has metal in it, so I took the lightbulb part and the metal part out, now NO light. Saturday, I took care of my five year old granddaughter
it was so much fun until about 4 o'clock my nerves started to mess up.
Sunday, I ran over the water thing behind to refridgerator, a three foot of water hose leaked 3 inches of water onto the floor. Luckily later my son came and fixed that.
Monday morning my Mom goes in the hospital. Tuesday I found out by law I'm not entitled to my husband's settlement from his father's death. Only children can get something out of it, wives of 36 years don't count.
Wednesday Mom gets to go back to the nursing home, she is feeling better.
That afternoon I found out they were going to cut my sewer off, I told them money goes nowhere they did not care, five days or cut off.
I didn't know that losing your husband made you a second class citizen or less. Well today is half over I'm just waiting for the sky to fall in on my head.
There should be a law when one goes the other automaticly goes with them.
Terry lost more than ever
I'm not a widow, I am a wife
We are only apart for heaven's sake
You are waiting for me at heaven's gate