bluebird....if it were me, I would consider Hospice and leave all other options open i.e. drainage. Hospice will give you the help needed and most of all; your husband will be made comfortable. You know, dear bluebird, this disease has a way of moving us along in that we are confronted with having to make decisions unconceivable before all this began. But we are fortunate; we continue to set goals, small, but achievable. And, remember, dear bluebird, Hospice allows for comfort care. They won't interfere with you and your family in any way.
My heart is with you,
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