Hey Adam, I'm 41, had the surgery in September last year (Wednesday will be 1 year to the day...). My scar is about 14" in the shape of a J and believe it or not is still numb. I had a slight abscess at one part of the scar that had to be packed and heal from the inside/out so it's a bit indented (a bit, funny, depends on your definition of 'a bit') and sometimes bothers me. I find that it bothers me more when I have been eating too much and put on a bit of weight (and yes, I've been having that problem lately, eating too much...:( ). Regarding the ab muscles, mine 'work' but I haven't been doing the typical weight training for abs lately. I have been doing light crunches when I am at the gym, but this past week I did a set of abs in between every set when I was doing bench/biceps (total of 8 sets of crunches at 20 each) and then leg raises for lower abs (3-4 sets of 10). That morning about 3-4am I woke up with enough discomfort that it woke me up. I got back to sleep and the next day the pain wasn't really there but was a bit sore. Probably over did it, but I think I need to get a bit back into it more slowly to build up the muscles. I don't have consistent pain or uncomfortable pain, but overdoing it will cause the pain and the numbness is still there after a year. Definitely listen to what the others said on your earlier post regarding seeing either your ONC or a different GP regarding the pain. You want to 'manage' it so it's tolerable while it heals so you aren't in discomfort. Good luck!!
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Attitude is everything, you have to keep it positive! And take it one day at a time, it's all anyone can do with this disease...