rough night for george...

thanks lainy,im trying to be strong,this emotional rollercoaster is horrible,shortly after the update,george came to me and said he wants to sleep,why do i want to sleep so much.my rollercoaster took a nose dive,i was so hopeing that george would stay up for a little while,but 10-15 minutes was all he could handle,he has no pain now,but last night it was in his bottom,more pressure then pain..two long time friends came by today,and he said he didnt want to see anybody,i told him that his sister is comming later ,and he said no,and he also told me to call miss kay(his nurse)and tell her not to come,i didnt because i need to talk to her...well,more later love you all hugs Lynn.

everybody calls but either george has his phone off,or he ingnors their call,sometimes they call me if they cant get a hold of george,and i go ask george if he wants to talk,most of the time he dose.hospice nurse comes out this afternoon,george said he didnt want to see her tho...

Hi Lynn,

Sorry to hear what George went through last night. And you have had a rough night as well. I know that my dad used to apologise to me as well a lot and I told him that he didn't have to ever apologise for anything. I sure hope that George is feeling a bit better today and that you don't have to use Lainy's lashing with a wet noodle technique either!!! Thinking of you both right now.

Hugs,

Gavin

Lynn….. Fleet Glycerin Suppositories Laxative worked well for my husbands to aid him in these episodes of constipation.  All other times he would take a stool softener ½ hour before his meal.   I also came to understand that he needed his space and lone time because; he simply did not have the energy or desire to interact with others.

To be ill and to undergo enormous, physical changes take a toll on the patient.  Most likely George prefers your company alone.  And, that is understandable – you are his biggest support.  I wish for a better night.
Hugs,
Marion