Good Pesach to you too Lainy! We are bending the rules and doing it next weekend. We divide up the work these days. I don't know how my mother and grandmother before her did it. I remember my grandma cooking for weeks before the holiday. She made it look effortless. And all those dishes and no dishwasher!! We would sometimes have 20 or 30 people at a sedar. And no talking during the sedar or you would get the look! All in Hebrew, my grandfather chanting. I really miss those days. But we now have our own type of sedar and it's fine.
Have a great time and enjoy all of the food without guilt!! You deserve it for so many reasons.
Survivor of breast cancer (1994), thyroid cancer (1999), cholangiocarcinoma (2009).
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