Twolf and Anna, you don't ever have to let go of your Mothers. Mother's never really leave their children. You are the wonderful daughters you are because you learned well from your Mother's and that is the most beautiful legacy a Mom can leave. The biggest reward is for a mother to look down and be able to be proud of her loving daughters. Then she will know what a great Mom she is and she would never want you to be unhappy, she would want you to enjoy the life lessons she taught you. In time all the good Memories will over shadow any bad ones and you will relish in the Mother Daughter bond that can never be broken.
Do not stand at my grave and weep;
I am not there. I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn's rain,
When you awaken in the morning's hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry;
I am not there. I did not die. By Mary Elizabeth Frye
For everything beautiful that you see
will bring a memory of me.
Teddy ~In our hearts forever~ATTITUDE is EVERYTHING
Any suggestion I offer is intended as friendly advice based solely on my own experience. Please consult your doctor for professional guidance.